Good in Bed Blogs

Welcome to the Good in Bed Blogs, where we are happy to offer:

  • Sex on the Brain” from sex and relationships counselor, Ian Kerner, PhD.  As a NY Times best-selling author and TODAY Show contributor, Ian addresses issues that are common to the "American bedroom" but nonetheless lead to lives of quiet desperation.
  • Sex Nerd” from Emily Nagoski, PhD. With more than a decade’s experience as a sex educator Emily brings insight and clarity to the often perplexing, always fascinating world of human sexuality.
  • Please peruse our Disclaimer, as our blogs are not intended to replace medical advice
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Sex on the Brain

with Ian Kerner

Does Too Much Porn Mess with a Guy's Sex Skills?

Posted by Ian Kerner August 05, 2010

Hey Guys, could your porn-habit be making you less of a lover in the real world? Are you developing what’s referred to in the world of sexology as an “idiosyncratic masurbatory style?” If you’re thinking “idio-what??” check out this article and consider a little visit to my website, Good in...

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He Came. He saw. He Came Again. (The truth about Premature Ejaculation)

Posted by Ian Kerner August 05, 2010

If you’re anything like me, and you’ve suffered from premature ejaculation (PE) for as long as you can remember, then the simple words “stop/start” and “squeeze” probably make you want to run up to the roof, raise your arms to the sky, and shout at the top of your lungs,...

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Sex Therapy 101: Is Your Sex Life Getting Flabby?

Posted by Ian Kerner August 05, 2010

 Think fast: when was the last time you had sex? This week? Last week? Last month? Uhhhm, not so sure? If you’ve been spending more time Facebooking with friends than face-timing with your partner, keep reading: that little rut you’re in could be on the verge of becoming a serious...

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Sex Nerd

with Emily Nagoski

Bend it like Beckett

Posted by Emily Nagoski August 17, 2010

Here is a hand-job tip that causes people’s eyes to widen and their heads to tilt thoughtfully to one side. As I’ve mentioned before, the shaft of the penis extends deep inside a man’s body. Much can be done with this fact. So why not do this: once he’s...

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how to have an orgasm, in 400 words or less

Posted by Emily Nagoski August 04, 2010

I’ve spent today polishing a booklet about orgasm written by a student. I’m essentially just adjusting the formatting and checking for typgraphical errors, but the one weak bit is the section that explains the technical bit about how orgasm works and why they go wrong. It is incredibly difficult...

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The Evolution of a Woman

Posted by Emily Nagoski August 04, 2010

So here’s a hard question that someone emailed me: WHY do women respond to such a wide range of stimuli? (Respond genitally, we mean, because by now you’re all well versed in the non-concordance issue, right? Right.) Well. I don’t know. No one does, really. I’ll tell you my...

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