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Mutual Masturbation: Another Tool for Your Sex Toy Toolbox

Posted by Vanessa Marin, LMFT

A common request I receive in my role as a sex therapist is for tips on how to spice up one's sex life. One idea clients rarely consider is mutual masturbation, which is one of the simplest but hottest ways to mix things up.

Mutual masturbation is when you masturbate in front of your partner, typically at the same time your partner is also masturbating. Some people get a little nervous about trying this, since most of us have been masturbating alone for our entire lives. We've been socialized to believe that masturbation in and of itself is "naughty," so the idea of doing it openly in front of another person can seem even more forbidden. But that sense of taboo is one of the reasons why it can be so thrilling!

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