How to take the "how to" out of the bedroom?
My husband and I have started a very fun journey of reconnecting and improving our bedroom skill set. The results are great (thanks Dr. Kerner for the fantastic books) but last night, I caught my husband referring to a guide during a heated massage. I know he wants to get technique down, which I appreciate, but it sort of kills the moment. Will confidence and creativity come? Should I encourage him to put down the book or allow him that crutch until his confidence has built?