There isn't much I love more then exploring my wife's body and giving her pleasure. She just isn't into it. Rarely wants sex. She could go months without it. Used to be I could get her turned on and enjoying herself but that seems to have faded as well. Now, she will let sex happen but she doesn't participate and just waits for me to get it over with. We had a baby six months ago, she is an MD, and just finished her residency. She is studying for boards and we are moving. So she obviously has a lot going on. I wish she could see sex as a stress reliever and vital for our relationship. We have talked about it, hasn't helped. Thanks!