When I go down on a girl she tells me a lot of times to go faster with my tongue strokes. However, I feel like I should keep on slow and escalate later to build up more orgasmic pressure. What do you think? Should I follow what she says? I feel like lot of times even girls do not know what they want.
Also, when she is in pre-ograsm state I usually just keep on going to make her orgasm. But what can I do in order to slow down and keep her on the edge of orgasm to make her crazy?