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By armygal1990 on Aug 26, 2010 at 2:25 AM

Is it normal to get wet while giving head? It happens a lot. Is it messed up if you are just a giver, I never receive...what should I do about it?

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Kristen Mark | Aug 26, 2010 at 6:47 AM | Reply | Report

It's VERY 'normal' to get wet while giving head. Orally pleasuring a partner can be a very sexy turn-on for a lot of people. If you never receive oral sex but want to receive it, then I'd suggest talking to your partner about it! Opening that conversation would be a great first step.

Paul | Aug 26, 2010 at 11:39 AM | Reply | Report

I'm male but I can tell you performing oral sex on my partner is a huge turn on for me. The more excited I can get her the more excited it makes me.

Definately talk to your partner about it. If it's something you feel you would like that there's nothing wrong with asking for it.

eammon | Aug 28, 2010 at 7:56 PM | Reply | Report

I agree with Paul. I can tell you as a husband of 33 years experience that nothing gives me more pleasure than orally pleasing my wife. The wetter she gets the harder I get. Plus, I love the taste of her "moisture" as she gets excited and orgasms, sorry for the graphic description. Your man is really missing a great thing if he isnt pleasing you with his tongue. Tell him I said so.

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Anna Potter | Aug 31, 2010 at 9:03 AM | Reply | Report

A lot of women LOVE giving head--it's such a powerful position to be in, and the amount of pleasure that a partner can get from getting head is really hot. So, yes, it's totally normal. Keep up the good work!

firefighter | Sep 5, 2010 at 10:40 AM | Reply | Report

I would say that getting wet is a normal response to a sexual activity that you enjoy doing! Why don't you ever receive? If you are wet, that would be very enjoyable... to me anyways!

NYGiant | Jan 7, 2011 at 1:21 PM | Reply | Report

Agreed, it must be a turn on for you if your vagina gets wet. That's great! This may help you--when my wife gives me head, I'm laying down on our bed, and she is laying the opposite way. While she is "kissing" me on my penis, she likes to be gently stroked on the outside of her vulva. Not too much to be distracted, but enough to get the juices flowing. It also allows her to feel that she is giving AND getting at the same time. She does not like 69, since she does not want "too much" going on simultaneously, but she absolutely likes to be rubbed along the sides and middle of the labia and vulva, and just a hint of penetration with my finger (but not on her clit.) We can do this for 20 minutes or so if her jaw does not get tired, as long as she does not stroke my penis while she is blowing me. (This avoids me ejaculating before we have intercourse.)

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