prostate orgasms in men
I'm a man who's a little jealous of his wife's intense g-spot orgasms (I'd love to have more than one orgasmic pleasure point). I've heard about a man's ability to have an orgasm via prostate massage, so I decide to give it a try. After searching around on the interwebs, I saw that the Aneros prostate massagers seemed to be highly recommended, so I got one for myself. Unfortunately, it does nothing for me. I thought that maybe it might take a few times to "get good at it" (for lack of a better term), but after 5 or 6 tries, it still doesn't do anything for me. Before spending huge sums to try out all of the self-proclaimed wonder toys, I thought it might be a good idea to seek some more experienced advice. My questions are thus:
1. Are all men (for some value of all) receptive to prostate play? Or, like some women and g-spots, do only some men get pleasure from this?
2. Is it too early to write-off this kind of pleasure, or should I try some other toys or methods?
3. If I should keep trying, what are some alternative toys or methods to try? Personal testimonial would be good, because I've gotten tired of reading the dubious reviews that I find on the sex-toy web sites. (I mean, how can I trust reviews when they are all positive? If you claim that no-one has ever disliked your items, then I just don't believe you.)
Thanks!
1. Nope, not all men are orgasmic through prostate stimulation.
2. Well, definitely don't write off any kind of pleasure! But it may be that you won't be orgasmic through prostate stimulation alone.
What's more likely to work for you is prostate or anal stimulation PLUS fellatio, manual sex, or intercourse. More familiar stimulation with anal/prostate stimulation added on is a fantastic way to increase novelty, intensity, and variety of pleasure. It can increase the intensity of your orgasms.
G-spot orgasms don't happen from g-spot stimulation alone; it's the multiple layers of stimulation and the time given to arousal that make them so intense.
ADD prostate stimulation to other stuff and you're more likely to have the experience you're looking forPr
You may find that other kinds of anal stimulation are better than prostate stimulation.
Externally, the anal sphincter is HIGHLY sensitive and stimulating it with light touch - well-lubricated fingers or, if your partner is cool with it, mouth and tongue - is a unique and intense experience. Shallow penetration can also provide intense stimulation; the sphincter winks closed when it's surprised or worried, so be gentle and patient.
This is one place where I can quite genuinely include a reference to Our Sponsor. You really must, must, must use lube with all anal play. Silicone lube (KY's intrigue, for example) is best because it's waterproof, doesn't evaporate, stays where you put it, and lasts a long, long time.
Don't worry too much about orgasm; just enjoy the many varieties of pleasure that expanding your sexual landscape can bring, and congratulations on trying new thingsPr
Beleive it or not I enjoy when the wife uses her toys on me seems to hit the spot just right the actual prostate massager didnt do much for me and yes I can agree with her fellatio while my wife does it is tottaly intense