No Sex Sucks
I've been married for 20 years to a wonderful woman. We haven't had sex in over a year. She's gone from 130lbs to 190lbs and has lost a lot of her hair. She's only 42 years old.
I just can't get myself in the mood to have sex with her. I very much love her, but there is no sexual attraction whatsoever.
I can't run my fingers through her hair, because of a comb-over she thinks I don't know about. She lost it after she had our only son. I think she thinks I can't tell.
No way do I want another woman and I do not want a divorce. As far as I'm concerned, I can go without sex for good. It seems I've lost all interest. I'm only 42 and I just don't understand that. I know sex is great. Where has my desire to have it gone? I want to have sex with my wife but I MUST have a physical attraction and it isn't there.
How do I tell her to lose weight and to do something about her hair without absolutely crushing her?
No sex sux!