Lack of Communication
I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now, and the sex between us has dwindled down to about once a week. I've tried to explain to him that I would like to have sex more than once a week. It ends up turning into an argument about how I just view our relationship only about sex. I've read a few different discussions on doing alternatives to sex like cuddling, which I love by the way, or massages. Some other way to express my love for my boyfriend. He just ends up brushing me off. Not only does my issues involved sex once a week, but it seems like he doesn't want to do anything. He doesn't want to explore possible options of experimenting or acting out fantasies. Please I would love some kind help. Just an idea how I can communicate better with my boyfriend with the issues that are bothering me.