What To Do?
So I have been seeing this amazing guy for a little over 2 yrs. Everything is great except for one major problem, we still haven't had sex. Things always arise, and it happens on both ends. It really is ridiculous... I finally got to talking to him, and he informed me of some sad news he told me that he literally feels like if he has no sex drive. As I on the other hand, have a really big one! I love him and want to continue with him, but it is driving me crazy not having sex with him. He says that he will go to the Dr. but it isn't high on his to do list. What can I do? Am I doomed?
Two years is a long time--especially, when many couples are most sexual earlier on in their relationship, as compared to when they've been together for a long time. If he has a condition that can be managed or treated with meds, therapy, acupuncture or other options, then you may get more in sync. However, if sex rates high on your list of priorities for your relationship, then you may need to choose between him and your sex life. Some couples who are in this situation, really want to be together, and decide to consider the option of having an open relationship. The bottom line: Follow your heart and do what makes you happy.
So many things could be going on to cause him to feel this way. If he is willing to go to the doctor, this might be a good place for him to start. Just continue to communicate with him and make decisions as you go along.