I've been told that a woman reaches her sexual peak in her 40's. The last year has been that for me but my husband and I are not on the same page. He's going the opposite direction. I'm begging for action 3-4 times a week while he puts me off. I keep asking if it's something I've done, not done, any idea...He give me the "it's not you, it's me" speech. We both have full-time jobs and own our own business, so we're busy with that as well. I know it's going to sound like a typical nagging wife but I'm feeling a little neglected. Our kids are high school age so not needing us as much anymore. Time for us, right? He's loosing steam when I'm just getting mine. For so long, it was always about the kids and him, and I was on the back burner. Now I want it to be about me and us. Am I asking too much? Worse is I'm wanting to stray but I know that's not a solution. That would make matters worse, a lot worse. Plus I don't think that I could bring myself to do that. Help!