No Passion or Desire
I am a 52 year old man who has been married to my best friend for almost 30 years. We have a good relationship in all aspects of our life except the bedroom. My wife and I have sex maybe once a week but it is never spontaneous, always has to be "earned" on my part (yes my perception) and my wife never shows any passion, desire or interest. I have never been seduced as she would refuse to do something like that. I have tried to talk about this but there is no change. Is there help or am I faced with the decision of acceptance or ending a 30 year relationship?