Strange Roommate Situation
I am trying to help a co-worker. She & her roommate were watching a movie, drank a bunch of wine. The movie was Bound; has lesbian scenes in it. Roommate got turned on, got into bed with her after movie. My friend (who admits drinking too much) was passive, but allowed her roommate to go down on her, finger her, kiss her boobs. They didn't kiss on mouth, my co-worker didn't do oral on roommate, just kind of laid back & let it happen. Co-worker came 2x. Roommate went slept there rest of night. Co-worker thinks this is all that happened. Now both embarrassed, but not sure both recall all the details due to wine. Co-worker feels strange since they still live together, have not spoken about it much, and hasn't happened again. My husband thinks she should move out, but $$ prevents it. She doesn't know how to move on/handle it. I think I'd talk to roommate about it, agree not to drink so much, and shrug it off. What do you think?