My ex-boyfriend and I recently ended things because he can't stop talking to women about sex online. I found conversations with women where he asked her to send him pictures up her skirt and wanted to know if she was wearing panties. He would send me to bed and then stay up to talk specifically to one woman who he slept with about 4 years ago about these things.
His first wife also contacted me and told me that he tried bringing up sex with her recently and explained that their marriage ended because he was addicted to porn. He would stay up after she went to bed to call sex lines and would go to chat rooms and have women send him pictures. This happened 8 years ago.
The thing that really got me is that his libido is extremely low. He rarely wants to have sex and if he does he wants to do it like we're in some porn movie.
He had to move for 2 years because of his job and we broke up for good because I was never going to be able to trust him so far away. It really makes me sad.