Woman with higher sex drive...
When C. and I first got together (tell me if you've heard this one) our sex life was great and frequent! There were some erectile issues but they never prevented us from having sex, just made us creative.
Now he seems less interested (going on 4 weeks). When I asked about it, he said the following:
1. He is still attracted to me and desires me, but sex is not a top priority for him.
2. He sometimes feels that sex is the ONLY priority for me (not the case at all).
3. He sometimes feels pressured to have sex because when we don't I leave his place looking dejected and he feels like a failure.
4. He wants me to initiate more instead of waiting for him (seems contradictory).
We have yet to talk about finding a solution, though we both know we have to. I don't want to lose someone amazing because of this, but physical intimacy is VERY important to me, and I can't make it otherwise. Sometimes I wish I could just turn it off. I don't know what to do. Thoughts?