my girlfriend have talked about having a threesome
at first she did not want to and i left it alone now we started talking a little bit about it agin her thing is she doesnt want another guy inside her i said i was fine with another girl but but we are having the same issue she doesnt want to get with a girl we talked about it last night and she said its because i am the only person she trusts with her body and that she still wants to but she is just unconfertable with me getting with a girl witch im fine with on the count of i want it to be with another guy but she doesnt trust another guy to have sex with her any segjestions on how to help her feel more confertable with it or if i should just drop it?
I really think you should drop it. Having a threesome should be something fun that both parties are interested in, and not a situation in which one party feels like they're being sexually pressured. It will only lead to resentment. Have you tried fantasizing about a threesome, and using the fantasy to turn each other on, without the pressure of having one. Why don't you ask her to participate on a fantasy-level, where you talk about it, and let her know why it's such a turn-on. Also, make sure when you're talking about it (in any context) that you position her at the center of the fantasy. But the fact that you have a loving, trusting relationship is paramount, and I wouldn't let the pursuit of a threesome get in the way of your relationship.
thanks for the advise im just gonna drop it maybe tonight ill try what you segjested weith telling her about why the fanticy is sutch a turn on and yea i would deffently rather keep her around and not have a threesone then drive her away by obsessing on it thanks for getting back to me