Male ejaculatory "extremes"
My ejaculatory/erectile patterns frustrate and interfere with my enjoyment of sex. When first having intercourse I typically ejaculate within several minutes - not diagnostically PE, but still far too quickly in my opinion. I should note that this does not happen with oral sex.
I would then like to have sex again with my partner, but I become flaccid after ejaculation, which I realize is normal, but it takes 30 minutes or more to become erect again. I am 30 and realize I am not 18 anymore, but this time interval seems excessive and interferes with continuing intimacy with my partner.
Lastly, once I do become erect again, I can have sex for 30 minutes or more without ejaculating. What ends it then is either she becomes exhausted or I eventually get bored and lose the erection.
I don't understand why the time to ejaculation is first so quick and then so long, or why the time to become erect again is so long. I tried viagra once for the latter issue and it did nothing.
Nothing wrong with what you describe, aside from your expectations.
Looks like a great set up to me! 1) You give her foreplay/oral until she has an orgasm and is satisfied, 2) then she gives you oral until you're ready to switch to 3) intercourse, and then the happy ending. What's not to love about that?
Have a snack, take a nap, watch a movie, go for a walk, whatever ... and repeat steps 1,2,3 until the cows come home.
You body is performing correctly ... get your mind on board to enjoy it!