Male ejaculatory "extremes"
My ejaculatory/erectile patterns frustrate and interfere with my enjoyment of sex. When first having intercourse I typically ejaculate within several minutes - not diagnostically PE, but still far too quickly in my opinion. I should note that this does not happen with oral sex.
I would then like to have sex again with my partner, but I become flaccid after ejaculation, which I realize is normal, but it takes 30 minutes or more to become erect again. I am 30 and realize I am not 18 anymore, but this time interval seems excessive and interferes with continuing intimacy with my partner.
Lastly, once I do become erect again, I can have sex for 30 minutes or more without ejaculating. What ends it then is either she becomes exhausted or I eventually get bored and lose the erection.
I don't understand why the time to ejaculation is first so quick and then so long, or why the time to become erect again is so long. I tried viagra once for the latter issue and it did nothing.