Rare sex, together 7 years , married 1
Please give me some advice and tell me it wont always be like this. Im together with my husband 7 years we have a 3 year old. We have had sex five times since our daughter was born whereas before it could have been daily. I dont find the way my husband initiates sex as attractive " fancy some rumpy" ?!! very sexy. and thats his attempt. He doesnt like to kiss, even though I have told him over and over that kissing my ear and neck is a short cut to a horny me! I very rarely get a compliment from him and my body is a lot different than pre child so I could do with some compliments. I feel at 30 I am middle aged and unnattractive and Im not sure I can put up with a sexless marriage forever but I dont know how to change it?
5 times in 3 years?!?? It's hard to imagine he's not motivated to work harder at seducing you by now. It doesn't sound as though he's very respectful of your needs. It makes me think you're experiencing a relationship issue more than a sex issue. Any chance you can go to counselling together?