married but havent had sex
Hi.. Ive been married for 2 months for my bf of 5 years but we havent had sex.. i was thinking were not sexually compatible but i love my husband..i want to make things work for both of us. we were both virgins in early 30s. we tried but it cause me pain a lot (i have a very low pain tolerance) aside from the fact that i dont get arouse. initially he tried to insert his penis, but it was painfull. we bought a lubricant and tried with his finger but only an inch was inserted because it makes uncomfortable.. what shall i do? i was thinking if i just have a high expectation because of what i read from the books and now i havent feeling any of it.. hope you could help us.. will appreciate your thoughts. thank you..