boyfriend can't climax with me
I'm female, 32, in my first relationship EVER. My guy is 28. We're both healthy and fit and have high sex drives. Sometimes we'll hang out for two days straight and have sex 6-8 times, 20-40 minutes a go. We both really enjoy it, I'm learning a lot (including that I am one of those lucky women who can orgasm [repeatedly] from penetration) but even when having sex so much, my boyfriend very rarely climaxes. He says he's enjoying it anyway and tells me not to worry. He says he's desensitized from using porn and paper towels when he masturbates (and it doesn't really bother me that he does so). A few times he has orgasmed, when we make the extra effort of doing roleplay or such, but I orgasm so much, and I know it isn't really my fault, but I want him to climax, too. I've tried giving him oral, but I'm working against a strong gag reflex in learning to deep throat. He also climaxed the one time we tried anal, but I bled, so we're wary of trying again. Any suggestions? How can I help him?