How to know if it is a fad or love.
Two years ago I met rob, my boyfriend's goodfriend. Rob and I had always been smitten with each other and got a long well, once a month we would call iif something was stressing us and needed advice, but we both enjoyed the hour or so call. My now fiance is out of the country and Rob was visiting in town, innocent at first but we finally realized after a week of inseperation, how much we cared and desired for each other. Despite vast distance, we have been able to see each other every other week. Each time, we become closer, talk about things we can't talk to our partners about, and sex has never been easier or more enjoyable. We feel we love each other very much, as both lovers and confidants, and have connection we don't share with our partners. We will end it soon, however we are devestated we found someone we love and relate to. Is it just a fad while our other relationships struggle? Its the most natural relationship we have had in a year, but we have longterm relationships