Viagra
I just found out my husband saw a doctor to get a prescription for Viagra without talking to me. I felt so left out of the conversation, as if it is only his sex life not ours. In addition, I did not know anything was wrong! We had sex three times last weekend. Granted, once we finished by hand. Sex has never been something that lasted hours, but more like 15 to 30 minutes and had always been very satisfying. I feel like, if I'm satisfied and he is looking for a perscription, I must be the one lacking.
Hubby says this is not true, but what else would he say. Obviously he did not want to discuss anything to begin with.
I have spent most of the last 24 hour in tears feeling distraught. We are both healthy 46 year olds. My husband has had enormous stress caring for an aging parent and a high powered job. I think he is just stresses out. I would like to help relieve the stress with great sex, but if he is just not into it...then what?
I wouldn't worry about it. I did the same thing. I had always been curious about Viagra and how it could make a good thing better. I didn't tell my wife either. My experiment with it was short lived and nobody was affected one way or another. I'd suggest that you don't take it personally and just get into it. Think of it as something he was doing to benefit both of you.