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Wife Quit on Sex

By stillcraveit on Jul 29, 2012 at 3:02 PM

My wife has decided not to have sex. Actually this is not as sudden decision as this has been an issue since 2006. She did have a hysterectomy a few years ago and claims she doesn't feel anything.Before she QUIT a couple of months ago she was lubricating as much as before and getting aroused and experiencing orgasms more powerful than ever. I've told her I will not live without it which I have told her before. How can she have the lubrication and powerful orgasms and not feel anything or enjoy it?

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orbello | Jul 31, 2012 at 7:30 AM | Reply | Report

Speaking as a woman who made that decision while married I think you should look at all aspects of your marriage. Communication, how you treat your wife at other times. Do you make her feel like you think she's the best thing that happened to you. It's hard to have desire if you have other issues.

stillcraveit | Jul 31, 2012 at 11:22 AM | Reply | Report

actually I tell her I love her all the time and that she is very beautiful and that I have very strong physical attraction for her as well as loving her with all my heart.

stillcraveit | Jul 31, 2012 at 8:19 PM | Reply | Report

I tell her all the time how beautiful she is and how great she looks and how much I love her. I tell her that I have a very strong physical attraction for her.

kima121 | Aug 6, 2012 at 9:32 AM | Reply | Report

Are u sure that she really had orgasms or was that just an act to make u feel good? many of women cannot reach vaginal orgams. Try new things in ned, use good smell, take a shower, new cloths, new haircut, u can have one or two candles light up, tell her that she is hurting your feelings by not having sex with her.

stillcraveit | Aug 13, 2012 at 7:34 PM | Reply | Report

Pretty sure she has orgasms. Her clitoris gets hard and I can feel it with my tongue. When this happens she orgasms every time. When it does not I know she isn't going to make it.

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