loss of interest in intimacy
My husband and I have been married for almost 34 years. We were passionately inlove and I was sure we were sole mates. Approximately five years ago, problems with our son still being at home, financial problems that led to the foreclosure of our second home and our having to refinance our primary home, which was paid for, led to increased arguments and hurt feelings. In addition, my husband had unaddressed health problems that all but ended our good sex life. We grew further apart and after a while he said he thought he would prefer to live alone and may not be inlove with me anymore. Insisted we give it a try to fix things, we agree, then I found letters from a woman to him, he says they never had sex, but he was curious as to where things could go with her, had talked to her about us but will not talk to me. Now, two years later, much better but no intimacy. Does not want to touch. Viagra makes him dizzy, does not like to take it. How do I get intimacy, sex & closeness back?