Husband only wants sex once every 3 months
We've been married for five years. We used to have sex twice
a week during the first couple of months, which turned into once
a week (which was, according to him, a more "normal" routine
according to 'statistics' he found on the Internet) shortly after.
Needless to say, i am not happy with his one sided arrangement.
We are currently having sex once every three/four months. I've tried
asking him to go to counseling together, but I really think he
prefers to get drunk rather than have sex with me. Any advice?
He is 41 and I'm 44...still too young to act like we've been
married for 50 years.