My fiancee and I are very active sexually with one another and we do very well together. We are an older couple, both healthy, and together now for 3 years (both over 50).
We are exploring now the joy of having a little intercourse most every day with one another when we both get up. The focus is never orgasm, but to connect with one another. It's our most fun thing to do and our sessions usually last from 15 to 30 minutes. We feel it gives us a nice jump start for the day and makes us feel closer to one another.
When I talk with many couples, their frequency of intercourse is maybe once a week or once every two weeks. If sex is so much fun, I wonder why others don't enjoy this more often?
I was curious if other couples have had success with the approach of more sex without the pressure of reaching orgasm?