Confused about sex w/ Ex vs new girlfriends
Been going thru a divorce for 2 years now. Was married for 15 yrs. Anyway, I've noticed that when I've been with new women, I seem to last much longer than I ever did with my wife. I also don't seem to maintain erection the whole time, which probably is the reason for lasting longer. This has happened with 2 different women, both of whom I've been very attracted to. Luckily it hasn't been an issue for them because I'm an open and affectionate lover...and I always do what I need to do to make sure they enjoy themselves. Many times, I don't even achieve orgasm.
A few months ago, I had sex with my soon to be ex and tho it was kind of strange and cold and not very exciting, I didn't last very long and I actually had an orgasm.
Why is it that I was able to finish with a woman who treated me so poorly for so many years even though the sex was kind of robotic and routine, but with my new girlfriend who is young, exciting and very sexy...I'm not able to?
Am I still hung up on my ex?