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Bi-curious or penis-curious?

By hdt101020 on Feb 1, 2017 at 12:40 AM

I 32 yr old married guy, comfortable with sexuality and in terms of having 'romantic interest' I am very straight. However, hotwife / cuckold fantasy is something wife and I have discussed -- although never actually acted upon -- but is a big turn on for me. Part of the fantasy that is so appealing is seeing her with an attractive, hung guy with a big/thick penis. Not only is that a turn on, but for some reason, in such a circumstance, the idea of me going down on the guy - and potentially more - is super arousing. What should I make of this and should I / how can I share this aspect of fantasy with wife?
Lastly, do you ever meet couples who have actually made cuckold/hotwife fantasy a reality, and 'lived to tell about it'?

Thanks!

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Kate McCombs, MPH | Feb 3, 2017 at 2:51 PM | Reply | Report

Lots of people fantasize about a thing, think it is super hot, and don't *actually* want to do it in real life. And some people also *want* to do it in real life, but it's very context specific, like the hot wife fantasy you describe. If you're asking "does this fantasy make you gay?" I'd say no, but I can imagine that could be difficult to explain to your wife depending on how open minded she is. Only you can gauge that - you certainly know her a lot better than we here on the forum do.

Have you and she ever watched hot wife porn together or read erotica together that features the themes that you describe? That might be a good way to test the waters and see how she feels about those activities.

CE | Feb 4, 2017 at 6:38 AM | Reply | Report

There's nothing wrong with your fantasy and doesn't make you gay. If it's something you want to try, you have to talk to your wife.

CarrieP | Feb 14, 2017 at 2:51 AM | Reply | Report

Thanks Kate for the apt reply. This would be of help for many

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