Hi! A 32 y.o. guy here. I've been dating this girl (2 years older) for about 2 months. We like and care about each other, and we're slowly falling in love. The thing is I haven't been intimate with anyone for 18 months or so and yes, I have performance anxiety. Last time I wasted three out of four condoms while trying to achieve penetration. I get flaccid when I put it on (nothing new here, I guess), but what bothers me the most is that I get rock hard (and I mean HARD) after I run out of condoms. Anyway, in the meantime, it scares me that we act such as freaks. I mean, lots of dry-humping, oral, mutual masturbation... Is that normal at our age? I even find arousing things that have nothing to do with penetration, or are the complete opposite. For instance, it turns me on when she sees I'm flaccid and small (I'm more a grower than a shower), or to grind her from behind while she has her panties on. She likes similar things, as well. Are we normal? What can we do from now on? Thank you!