Oral sex - is it even?I am currently in a relationship where the sex has gotten a little "weird". For a long time, I thought we had a pretty good sex life - but fairly recently she has pointed out that I'm selfish.
For a long time, she would go down on me maybe 5-6 times a week. Admittedly, for a long time, I went down on her maybe only twice a month.
About 2 months ago, we had a large fight about this and she said how unfair it was. I agreed - and I thought we had improved the situation.
She was still going down on me maybe 5-6 times a week - and I was going down on her maybe 3 times a week. I understand that's not even - but there in lies the problem - given all that I do and everything about our relationship, I think it evens out in other ways.
But will I always have this battle?
Even if I contribute more in other areas, will she always find the unfairness in that department? I genuinely don't think I'm prepared for a relationship where it's even in that department -maybe I'm just a selfish jerk?