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• Mischelle40 commented on What makes you feel sexual?
  I don't feel sexual at all. I love my husband, don't believe I have any real self-esteem issues (I am overweight but my hubby still desires me), and don't feel worthless or unnoticed at work. I just simply no longer want sex. We have been married 21 years, have 4 kids and a granddaughter, and for the last 7-8 years, I just really don't want sex. I can reach orgasm (he insists I do before he does), but I really don't want them. It doesn't bother me at all, but it really stresses him out, so I try to humor...
• CAgirl commented on What makes you feel sexual?
  I pretty much always feel sexual. What works best to get things started, though, is for him to either respond well when I initiate OR just be the manly man...surprise me with the passionate kiss or some suggestive talk that shows me your desire to be with me.......
• Paulina commented on What makes you feel sexual?
  Well Mischelle40 I am so curious about you. I have a neighbor who says she does not like sex either or rather not interested anymore. What I am unclear about is whether you enjoyed it if you wanted to. I just don't understand how anyone can deny themselves this incredible pleasure. It's such a high. And it's right there for the taking and there are no bad side effects...you know like other highs. In fact it's has healing powers. Why do you think you you don't want it? I am not trying to put you on a stand or anything....
• Evolver commented on What makes you feel sexual?
  My wife and I are in our early fifties. Our bodies have changed. She is very conscious of those changes. To be perfectly honest my tastes have evolved with those changes. I like her larger breasts. I like her tummy, I like rubbing the soft flesh just above her pubis. I like her widened rear. I like to rub and massage it, maybe even kiss it. Its her, who she is now and I love her. She is my sexual teacher, confidant, partner. Having her respond to my touch makes me feel sexual. Having her touch me makes me feel...
• lsbpagosa commented on What makes you feel sexual?
  What turns me on is knowing that I am the object of my boyfriends sexual desire. HE turns me on because he is gorgeous (almost to distraction) and loves nothing better than to sleep next to me at night (he calls it his "favorite part of the day"). Sometimes we have sex twice a day and at times we have sex every three days. Quickies are rare because my bf believes that sex should be an "event". So, when we have ample time sex is luxurious and uninhibited and can last for hours. We actually talk about and plan our...