Madeleine Castellanos, M.D.

  • Commented on tilted uterus gspot orgasm
    I don't believe that the angle of your uterus would affect your G-spot too much because it is an area adjacent to erectile tissue that is not very deep at all. As for how you experience your gushing, your mental...
  • Commented on Partner Doesn't Like It When I Masturbate
    I am so happy to hear that you are advocating for your pleasure! You are absolutely correct that just because you cannot continue with intercourse doesn't mean that you can't continue with other sexual activities. Perhaps he views it as...
  • Commented on Question for Dr. Castellanos
    I'm not sure if you are talking about the homunculus (the representation of the whole body in the brain) or the specific slide from Dr. Komisaruk's paper showing the overlap of clitoris, vagina, and nipple? You can find a copy...
  • Commented on Trouble orgasming with boyfriend
    What you are describing is not uncommon. Fantasies are always personal and their erotic meaning is not always the same for another person. Because your experience does not completely match your fantasy, it will take longer to reach orgasm, as...
  • Commented on Hand-job
    There certainly isn't anything wrong with wanting one. Have you both explored together (in a curious, non-judgmental way) what it is about handjobs that she doesn't like? Is it that she gets tired? Does her hand or her wrist hurt?...
  • Commented on Hi i think im to powerful for sex. Is this good?
    Sex is not all about thrusting, and if a guy has a big or long penis, thrusting vigorously may not be tolerated by a female partner. So much of sexual arousal and pleasure for women comes in the mental ideas...
  • Commented on unmatching sexual interests
    Sexual fantasies are complex and can have underlying themes that seem far removed from the act/fetish. Sometimes, when people examine their fantasies or fetishes in therapy, they can transform them slightly or find how to bring them into the relationship...
  • Commented on I have desire wife doesn't
    Sexual energy is a real and powerful thing. If the only way you channel it is into your penis, then you are going to be frustrated with the never-ending draw to stimulate it. Sex is fabulous and invigorating. So how...
  • Commented on Threeway fantasies, but not willing to act on it?
    First, let me say congratulations to you for exploring what is erotic for you. The brain forms fantasies in ways that enhance people's ability to get aroused by finding solutions for insecurities and enhancing wants and desires. This is true...
  • Commented on P Shot
    The P shot uses your own platelets activated by chemicals to induce collagen formation. It is injected into the erectile tissue with the hopes of fortifying it. Some studies have shown increased blood vessel formation. There is a concern for...
  • Commented on acheiving ideal penis size or large penis obession
    I think your friends are right....
  • Commented on Boyfriend and I aren't having sex
    It does sound that there are multiple issues interfering with BOTH of you in your arousal. I always encourage couples to focus on those things that you like and that work for you so that you can find out how...
  • Commented on about lubricant
    When there is a lot of lubrication, it decreases friction. He may need that sensation of a little more friction to maintain his awareness of his erection. Some couples like to keep a little hand towel by the bed so...
  • Commented on Help Needed ! I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time using condom on 21st June 2015 we have sex 3 times in a day.?
    You should not try to be her doctor. If she has pain that is unusual, she needs to go to her GYN and get evaluated....
  • Commented on Tired of my PE
    I think that you need to get treatment from a sex therapist ASAP. The longer you go without treatment, the more it will continue to affect you psychologically....
  • Commented on My gay lover cheated spectacularly
    I'm sorry that you were hurt by his actions....
  • Commented on What's wrong with my vagina?
    I believe that you are probably not loose for a couple of reasons. First, he says so. Definitely believing your partner is telling you the truth is an important part of any aspect of your relationship, especially sexual. Next, if...
  • Commented on husband can't maintain erection
    Often couples do better when they can talk about the things that are going right for them. Have you both explored what DID work when he wasn't initiating as much, but you were enjoying more? I think that would be...
  • Commented on Plus-size sex
    You may try him laying on his side and her laying on her back with her legs over him (bodies forming like a T). A variation of that could also be intercourse in more of a scissoring position....
  • Commented on normal desire for a feminine straight female
    It's quite normal to appreciate the female form, even as a woman. That is different from appreciating or enjoying femininity and masculinity. Keep in mind that women have more sexual fluidity than most men and so it's not unheard of...
  • Commented on My shy orgasm-less wife just decided to get a vibrator. Help!
    First of all Mike, relax. If you build up the hope of the experience too much, it may create anxiety for her and too much pressure for her to "enjoy herself." The point of getting it is to explore what...
  • Commented on Emotional Infidelity
    You cannot help yourself to get out of it? Agree that if you really want to stop, you need to cut all contact....
  • Commented on My boyfriend seems to be isecure about being large....
    I think that what you are suggesting can only increase his anxiety and invites further criticism. Just love him and let him find his own peace with it....
  • Commented on Safer Sex
    Agree with said advice. Condoms - male or female - are the best method, but must be used properly and consistently. There are no side effects from condoms. You should definitely speak with a Gyn and go for a visit....
  • Commented on Awkward sex & he never makes a move
    He may have more anxiety around sex than you do. Have you guys considered going to a sex therapist?...
  • Commented on Wife's libido is low.
    Is she satisfied with her sex life? Is there anything that she is looking for?...
  • Commented on First Timer with no clue what he's doing
    It's difficult to say what could be happening. Do you masturbate with a lot more pressure than you feel with your SO? When this happens, a guy gets himself desensitized to strong pressure, so they don't feel as much during...
  • Commented on Libido enhancements?
    It seems as though this product has epimedium (Horny goat weed) as an ingredient, which is used to improve erections. But with these products it's always a question of do they really contain what they say they do? Also, are...
  • Commented on Facial
    Just because it's not like that for you doesn't mean that it's not like that for her. See? Perhaps you could explore for yourself why it's so appealing to you?...
  • Commented on Anorgasmia
    If you have rubbed up against women with their expressed prior knowledge and consent, that's fine. If not, that's a crime and also morally objectionable. If you have rubbed up against women without their consent, then you are committing sexual...
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