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Commented on Woman with higher sex drive...
That's good that at least your husband is willing to work with you. I was married before dating C. I was with my ex for 9 years (married 6) and from the very beginning, he had a much lower drive...
Commented on Woman with higher sex drive...
I'm glad to hear someone illutrating my point. He indicated during our talk that he felt that my higher sex drive was related to my, and I disagree on that point entirely. I know plenty of people in their 40s,...
Commented on Woman with higher sex drive...
Since I wrote the above he has initiated more. I have wanted to initiate per his request but he actually hasn't given me the opportunity. Even when he's not in the mood, if I just come out and say that...
Commented on Boyfriend Can't Climax from Oral
Hi All! Thank you for the suggestions, comments, etc. I appreciate it! This is my first long-term relationship after divorce, and I find myself unsure of how much to "share" sexually, so we don't talk about sex all that much....
Posted Boyfriend Can't Climax from Oral to The Good in Bed Forums
I've been dating C. for approximately 7 months, and have given him oral on many occasions. Typically I will give him head for between 5 and 15 minutes and then he will want to finish via intercourse. I have been...
Commented on sexless marriage resulting in divorce
This is difficult because, to some extent, people who haven't been there may not understand leaving a marriage for lack of physical intimacy. I was in a similar situation, though I am female. My ex and I were best friends,...
Posted Woman with higher sex drive... to The Good in Bed Forums
When C. and I first got together (tell me if you've heard this one) our sex life was great and frequent! There were some erectile issues but they never prevented us from having sex, just made us creative. Now he...

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eammon commented on Woman with higher sex drive...
I am in a similar position but with the reverse occuring. My wife has a much lower creativity level. Her sex drive is okay but she lacks in creativity. After over 30 years of marriage, I am bored out of my mine. Whenever I have asked about new things it ends up in a fight, right after her question "is that all you think about?". I guess that is her defense against my wishes for new positions, places, etc. We are empty nesters too. Well, to solve that problem I have reduced my desires and expectation of a good sex...
Greg007 commented on Woman with higher sex drive...
Maybe you and I could hook up. I am 53 but have the sex drive of a 20 year old. I will initiate things....
sdjddj commented on Woman with higher sex drive...
I am a female and have a huge sex drive. My husband isn't even close to me. He teases me that I am the energizer rabbit. Like you I am not always about the act per say. I can get my fill by just kissing. Some nights I will just look at him and tell him I want to make out without the physical. I admire the fact that you have gotten creative by getting naked and just cuddling. To me it sounds like you are fixing your own problem by making him feel like he isn't being pressured. Keep...
sdjddj commented on Woman with higher sex drive...
Like you sex is very important to me. My hubby went thru a period of not wanting sex at all. I am talking about maybe 6x a year. This went on for about 5 yrs. I was ready to step out of the marriage to get my physical needs met. I also contemplated divorce because I was so sexually starved. I of course thought I just didn't do it for him anymore. One day he went into my emails and read some inappropriate conversations I was having with another man. I had not physically cheated but I was close. That's...
dutchmenmightfly commented on Boyfriend Can't Climax from Oral
I had some trouble to ejaculate purely from oral as well. I've been reading and analysing things since my current girlfriend and I do think it has to do with mental, visual and audible stimulation. When you're having penetrating intercourse there are so many sensual things going on and they all work together to bring about an orgasm, the ammount each person needs really varies. I personally enjoy talking about sex with my partner, because it helps understanding eachother greatly and sometimes even outside the bedroom. As for a direct tip, did you ever try to make it a team...