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Posted Spicing things up? to The Good in Bed Forums
I'll get straight to the point. My boyfriend wants to use a "pussy pump" on me. I'm open minded and this sounds interesting and fun. I do have a couple of questions though: 1. I have an IUD (mirena). Will...
Commented on HELP! I think I did some damage to my iud!
The bleeding has stopped. It stopped the next morning. No pain, everything is back normal. Should I still consult a physician?...
Posted HELP! I think I did some damage to my iud! to The Good in Bed Forums
Hello, I was using a vibrator last night, alone. I've done this before and have never had problems. I've had it for a little over a year. I don't have a period. I occasionally have spotting but it never lasts...
Commented on Wife Does Not Like Sex
You mentioned that she doesn't want to open up. I know for me that was very difficult to do with my partner about my desires, problems, etc. Something that helped a great deal(I'm not sure if you've done this)is he...
Commented on I have a few questions....
I work out daily and eat right. My plan is lose 15 pounds before he comes home. No luck yet but I'm sticking with it. I don't live on base. I live in Maine. My boyfriend is 2200 miles away...
Commented on I have a few questions....
Thank you so much for your reply!...
Commented on I have a few questions....
A number of things I think. First of all I'm not good at thrusting- never have been. My body gets tired easily in positions like that. I'm worried about his pleasure being affected by this... Secondly, My self esteem is...
Commented on I have a few questions....
A number of things I think. First of all I'm not good at thrusting- never have been. My body gets tired easily in positions like that. I'm worried about his pleasure being affected by this... Secondly, My self esteem is...
Posted I have a few questions.... to The Good in Bed Forums
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months (we've been best friends for many years however). He's away on military training & won't be back until October,2013.I love him dearly. We've spiced things up as much as...
Commented on Body issues are affecting sex life/relationship
I've had body issues of my own in the past and I know that that can be hard to deal with. Something that I think you should keep in mind is that I think he truly and honestly believes what...
Posted Body image and Sexual Attraction to The Good in Bed Forums
I am trying to lose weight. I'm doing quite well and feeling better about myself every day. My boyfriend and I both just want me to be healthy. We've been best friends for a long time. We're very close and...
Posted new horizons to The Good in Bed Forums
I've always wanted to try anal sex. I guess you could say that it's something I've always "fantasized" about. I've never tried it, but it's always something that I've wanted to try. I don't know what i would think of...
Posted My boyfriend lost his erection... twice to The Good in Bed Forums
1. My boyfriend lost his erection, twice, during sex yesterday. This has never happened before, is there something wrong with me? 2. Every now and then we begin to smell the smell of urine during sex. It must of come...
Commented on Doing sexual things while sleeping
I've never had any experiences with this. Maybe you should bring this up to your doctor? He might be able to give you an explanation?...
Commented on My Relationship is a bit strained...
Over the past two years I've gained about twenty pounds. I exercise regularly and am working towards losing the weight. I hate working out myself. I do it because I know it's healthy and there are times when I could...
Commented on My Relationship is a bit strained...
I meant. We'll make it through this rough spot. We always do. I did not mean that we always "hit rough spots"....
Posted My Relationship is a bit strained... to The Good in Bed Forums
I wrote about some self-image issues not too long ago. I was still concerned that he had become less attracted to me. We had talked about this, but I asked him again. Call it intuition, instinct, or even just pensiveness....
Commented on Romance
That makes sense. I think what I'm really asking though (and I'm not sure you'll be able to answer this) is this: Is there a difference between a man's emotional passion(i.e. when in love and in a committed relationship) for...
Posted Romance to The Good in Bed Forums
How is a man's romantic passion different than a woman's'?...
Posted Self-Image to The Good in Bed Forums
When we met (two years ago) I weighed 136. I've gained twenty pounds over the past few years. I now weigh 155. Despite this, I still feel beautiful, I still feel sexy. Every now and then, I start feeling self...

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stillcraveit commented on Wife Does Not Like Sex
I've had the same issue. I finally told my wife I'm not living without sex in my like. It's her decision where we go from there. She came around and we are doing well. Maybe it works for you and maybe not. But you have to have conviction to that statement. I was prepared to move on it because I had given her every chance to have a life with me....
WD commented on Wife Does Not Like Sex
I don't see any advice here, from any of the MD's or other medical professionals. What is her medical history? Is she on any medications, including birth control? Hormone levels checked? Thyroid? Is she stressed by work, family, or have history of depression (some people can mask those symptoms very efficiently). Be certain of one thing: I am NOT saying anything is wrong with her. But her libido is being affected either by emotional or physical aspects that you and probably she, as well, do not fully understand. You two are ripe for some couples counseling by an AASECT sexologist/therapist....
Ian Kerner commented on Wife Does Not Like Sex
Sorry for the response in seeing this thread -- I agree with much of the advice in this dialogue. I really think you need to see a professional -- if your wife refuses to go, then you must go yourself. You mentioned the expense of a divorce, and investing in some therapy sessions will cost far far less. But it sounds like the situation cannot continue as is, and you need help. Your wife needs help too, especially in opening up and communicating around her lack of interest, but you need strategic therapy in terms of concrete next steps. Some...
Warren commented on Wife Does Not Like Sex
I was in a very similar position and just recently my wife and I started communicating for the first time after 10 years (about sex). We have 3 young kids, we both work, mortgage, 2 cars... the whole 9 yards. Everything may look great on the shell but without a solid core (love and desire), you're headed towards depression, infidelity, and eventual separation. The worst part of it is, your children will suffer. Better to live a life feeling like a man, being desired and showing your "best" to your kids as a single man than being a broken, undesired,...
Madeleine Castellanos, M.D. commented on HELP! I think I did some damage to my iud!
Whenever you have irregular bleeding that you did not expect, you have it checked out by the ObGyn. It does not have to be related to the IUD necessarily - could just be the cervix. You should explain the situation to your Gyn and have them take a look....