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Posted BF wants to go to a sex party/orgy to The Good in Bed Forums
My bf mentioned that he would like to go to a sex party type thing/orgy but only have sex with each other. He likes the idea of others watching us to do it. I'm intrigued and open to the idea...
Commented on Dildo Regrets
In your original post you made it sound like you bought it for her, used it a few times with her and she started using it alone instead of with you. If you made a big deal about it making...
Commented on Dildo Regrets
I have to echo the first comment here, that dildos can cause the same insecurities that porn can in a relationship. I think it is something every man should think about when they are blowing off their so's insecurities/concerns. It...
Commented on married but havent had sex
Have you seen a doctor about your problem? Losing your virginity is painful, and sex (at least for me) was painful for me the first 5 times but then got better. Does he do a lot of foreplay, like playing...
Commented on When does bad sex become a deal-breaker?
I am no expert, but I can relate to your situation. My bf just made me come with his tongue for the first time after 3 years! We bought "She Comes First" and I read, not him, twice! He made...
Commented on Sex life suffering, Fiance says he "has no fantasies"
We acted out his fantasies and it was honestly the hottest sex we ever had. But I really felt like he was sharing the most tame fantasies with me. I would like to explore new things with him. To be...
Commented on Sex life suffering, Fiance says he "has no fantasies"
I can understand about being scared about expressing fantasies. I also know that he probably has fantasies that don't include me, but I would like to know the fantasies that we could maybe out out together. I have watched porn...
Commented on Sex life suffering, Fiance says he "has no fantasies"
Eammon- What exactly are you saying or what advice are giving me? I was a little confused about the point of your post, are you just complaining about your non-existant sex life? Or are you saying that maybe my S/o...
Commented on Sex life suffering, Fiance says he "has no fantasies"
Gman- Thanks for you reply. I know he has fantasies, I think is what is so frustrating about this! I just want to spice things up and the whole "nothing turns me on except your naked body" thing doesn't turn...
Posted Sex life suffering, Fiance says he "has no fantasies" to The Good in Bed Forums
I posted earlier about my body issues being a new mom. Another issue is our sex life is hurting and I want to spice it up and be passionate for each other again. It isn't a lack of sex drive...
Commented on Body issues are affecting sex life/relationship
Thank you both for your responses. I agree that I need to try to believe him and be positive about my body/relationship. Ian Kerner, thank you for your response. I agree that I need some help emotionally. By the way,...
Posted Body issues are affecting sex life/relationship to The Good in Bed Forums
I have some body issues that have really started talking a toll on my relationship with my fiance and my attitude on life. I am 23, my s/o and we have a baby together. We have been together for 3...

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b commented on Dildo Regrets
She does not stimulate herself externally while using dildo. She uses the dildo alone. When I have attempted to introduce it during lovemaking she states that she does not like it & it is gross. She is not aware that I have a hidden camera in the bedroom and have caught her multiple times using the dildo when I am at work during the day....
1kuelguy commented on Dildo Regrets
b, I am sorry, for both of you. Please, I do not mean to be offensive but "dude", the lack of trust you are showing by secretly recording your wife in your absence, is quite telling. The fact that she enjoys the toy so much and doesn't communicate to you is her loss and yours. I have to agree with crazyd, that the 8 inch and you said 2.5 inches in diameter, that is one really thick dildo and my first reaction was she is doing all this out of spite. If it were me, I'd get some counseling as...
wantsmore commented on Dildo Regrets
Well at least its just a dildo and not another guy. That is why you installed the camera wasn't it? Because you were wondering if her indifference to sex with you was because she was having an affair? I guess you can't really confess to that violation of privacy can you? Maybe you just need to become a better lover. Maybe the experts here can help....
Ian Kerner commented on Dildo Regrets
I'm not sure what to say about the dildo -- maybe she's able to receive more direct clitoral stimulation via the sex toy, or maybe she's more relaxed, self-conscious when she's on her own. maybe there's a lack of interest in sex with you for some reason. I don't think you need to feel threatened by the sex toy, but you both need to communicate to better understand why that "sex-script" works for her. But frankly the invasion of privacy via a hidden camera is of much greater concern. That indicates the possibility of great distrust and anxiety on your...
Madeleine Castellanos, M.D. commented on Dildo Regrets
You have much bigger problems than a dildo. If your question is a real question, then I have several questions for you. Why do have a secret camera in the bedroom that she does not know about - after 24 years of marriage? Usually such trust issues are accompanied by other relationship dynamics that significantly interfere with intimacy, closeness, and arousal. Why are your expectations of orgasm with penetration so high? Most women need external stimulation in order to reach orgasm. Even those who use some form of penetration, it may be the movement on her labia that inadvertently tug...