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Well it looks like I wore out my stay here. LOL. I'll take your advice into consideration. Thanks all!...
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RESUME> There may be another issue here - intentional sabotage. Maybe its just paranoia, but she may be playing games - denying me to get me to do something stupid so then she can be the one to look snow...
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That is something to consider. I just may do that. But that may backfire on me - she may say that its another "ploy" to get her to have sex with me. And to be blunt, I wouldn't want "obligated"...
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RESUME--> , I've asked her to go to counseling or talk to somebody about this and she flatly refuses. I've tried NOT talking about or bringing it up and then well, it will just "not happen" even longer - the...
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Thank you all for your responses... Oh dont' get me wrong. I don't get mad. I don't really say anything. I wouldn't dare get nasty about it - that would of course be worse. But you see, even if its...
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Hello all. I don't know where to begin. I'm completely heartbroken over this. This is my second marraige (hers too) and while we were dating I made it a POINT to let her know (so she clearly understood) that I...

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Backpacker commented on Disinterested wife....
Hi KDOG - Don't expect much long term discussion here. I had a thread going a few weeks ago...it played out after about 5 days. What you will get here is a brief whirlwind of discussion and then it's off to the next topic. You will also get a recognition that there are pile of men and women out there in similiar situations. In this case, you are the "pursuer" and your wife the "distancer". There are number of books written about how this comes about. There is an underlining issue that needs to come to the surface. You can...
Backpacker commented on Disinterested wife....
Take a deep breath bro and back off your wife for a bit and work on you. I've been in my situation for several years now and with A LOT of work on my part, my wife is starting to recognize the value of our marriage. Remember your marriage vow, for better or for worse. You are in a very sucky period right now...it's definitely worse! Among other things, I've gone through probably 8 to 10 notebooks keeping a journal to focus on myself, the situation and how I can make things better. I went to counselling and I've read...
Anna Potter commented on Disinterested wife....
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Katrex commented on Disinterested wife....
So. Let me first say I'm stating this all from a scientific veiwpoint and these opinions no way reflect on my personal life. Seems to me a few things might be occuring. A: She's never been sexualy attracted and is with you BECAUSE you're a nice guy and will raise her kids well one day. Statistically if this is the case she is likely to cheat when she wants kids. B: She might want you (deep down anyway) to take control. She's got the power, you back down when she shouts at you and thus sex is just a tool....
fartknocker commented on Disinterested wife....
Sound's like you gotta give her half and move on....This problem is tough enough to deal with when your in a relationship...In marriage your done...:(...