More Books by Ian Kerner

"Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they're not satisfied. A practical, friendly, well-written guide for men who want to give better orgasms and the women who will be lining up to love them."
--Cindy Chupack, Executive Producer, Sex and the City

"The sex manual getting the most attention these days is SHE COMES FIRST: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner... With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, he encourages men through an act that many find mystifying."
--New York Times, Sunday Book Review

"The man who made oral sex into an art form."
--Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D, Professor of Sociology, University of Washington and author of Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love and the Sensual Years

"Move over, Casanova. Step aside, Don Juan. Out of the way Mr. Big. Meet Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. And you thought the brainy ones couldn't be good in bed. Kerner has come up with an extraordinarily detailed how-to manual for men. Study it like a pre-med student and you'll get toe-curling results."
--New York Post

"Is it too late to nominate Kerner for some sort of Nobel prize? "
--Blogcritics.org - Read Review

"Every man's must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First."
--Cosmopolitan

"Perhaps it's time we paid more than lip service to the idea of true sexual liberation, and perhaps She Comes First is just the sort of talking point we need to get us started."
--The Guardian, UK

"This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!"
--Joel Stein, Time Magazine

"Armed with a doctorate in clinical sexology, Kerner has devoted his life to the study and practice of good sex--there are few men that wouldn't benefit from the female-centric philosophy and techniques that Kerner advocates."
--Salon.com

"Men, while still lame, can no longer hide behind the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring a woman--the facts are all here in this complete guide."
--Dr. Drew Pinsky

"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there."
--AskMen.com

"You'll find an incredible attention to detail as Kerner waxes poetic on the beauty of female anatomy and sexuality...this is a very good book, and I appreciated Kerner's willingness to share his very personal experiences with others. Would that all men were so enthusiastic about going down."
--JanesGuide.com


"The 'he says, she says' handbook for rekindling your sex life with a baby on board."
--Redbook Magazine Read More

"Ian Kerner is a sex therapist and best-selling author, so whatever your excuse is for not having sex, he has heard it before.He's also married with two young sons, so there's a good chance he has also lived your excuse. Assuming, of course, your excuse is kids. Which it usually is."
--Chicago Tribune 

"Instead of simplistic New Age advice, Raykeil and Kerner offer practical tips for parents who live in the real world of dirty diapers, post-pregnancy pounds and little or no free time."
--Seattle Post-Intelligencer Read More

"Kerner (She Comes First ) and Raykeil (Confessions of a Naughty Mommy) speak from experience when they give new parents advice about having sex again. Kerner writes from the male perspective of feeling like the third wheel and the temptation to bottle up emotions. Raykeil discusses the excitement of being a new mother as well as the sense of sheer exhaustion, not to mention feeling far from sexy with added baby weight. Compassionate, realistic help; highly recommended for all public libraries."
--Library Journal Review

"Fun and full of tips, the book is unstuffy (they use the f-word), very personal and, at times, naughty."
--Miami Herald Read More


"The first comprehensive program to put your sexual health and satisfaction up front and center and lead you step-by-step to a more vital, fully realized love life."
--Hilda Hutcherson, MD, Clinical Professor, Columbia University Medical Center and Author of Pleasure: A Woman's Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need and Deserve

"As a biological anthropologist dedicated to understanding why we love, it's refreshing and reassuring to know that Ian Kerner is out there in the world showing people how to love."
--Helen Fisher, PhD, author of Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love

"From breaking out of a sex rut to managing mismatched libidos, Ian Kerner is at the forefront of giving us fresh sexy solutions to classic sex problems."
--Esther Perel, marriage and family therapist and author of Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic

"With case studies and examples of couples and singles who have gone through the program, Kerner leads us empathetically through a journey that will appeal to young and old across the relationship life-cycle."
--HealthNewsDigest.com


"In Passionista, his pleasure is all yours!"
--Tracey Cox, best-selling author of SuperSex

"Ian is that best male friend who just happens to be a hip sex therapist.  Passionista satisfies the reader with tasty morsels of sexual enlightenment, nibble by nibble, bite by bite."
--Lou Paget  Best-selling author How to Be a Great Lover & Great Lover Playbook

"A Master Class in Men. Four Stars. You need another sex book like you need a hole in the head, right? Not so fast. Kerner, who famously urged men to wiggle their tongues in She Comes First, is back with a guided tour of male sexuality, with an emphasis on the mind as well as the body."
--New York Post

"On the principle of 'what is good for the goose is good for the gander,' Dr. Ian Kerner has written the logical follow-up to She Comes First. He Comes Next provides detailed instruction on pleasuring a man."
-- Barnes & Noble.com

"..his discussions of male desire and sexual response, and tips on how to tickle the male libido before you even reach the bedroom, made me feel like a female Luke Skywalker, toiling under the tutelage of a much more articulate Yoda."
-- Sex Herald