More Books by Ian Kerner
Praise for She Comes First:
"Required reading for
all men who are dating and all women who are
wondering why they're not satisfied. A
practical, friendly, well-written guide for men
who want to give better orgasms and the women
who will be lining up to love
--Cindy Chupack, Executive Producer, Sex and the City
"The sex manual getting
the most attention these days is SHE COMES
FIRST: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a
Woman by Ian Kerner... With a cool sense
of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, he
encourages men through an act that many find
--New York Times, Sunday Book Review
man who made oral sex into an art
--Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D, Professor of Sociology, University of Washington and author of Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love and the Sensual Years
over, Casanova. Step aside, Don Juan. Out of
the way Mr. Big. Meet Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide
to Pleasuring a Woman. And you thought the
brainy ones couldn't be good in bed. Kerner has
come up with an extraordinarily detailed how-to
manual for men. Study it like a pre-med student
and you'll get toe-curling results."
--New York Post
too late to nominate Kerner for some sort of
Nobel prize? "
--Blogcritics.org - Read Review
"Every man's must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First."
"Perhaps it's time we paid more than lip service to the idea of true sexual liberation, and perhaps She Comes First is just the sort of talking point we need to get us started."
--The Guardian, UK
"This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!"
--Joel Stein, Time Magazine
"Armed with a doctorate in clinical sexology, Kerner has devoted his life to the study and practice of good sex--there are few men that wouldn't benefit from the female-centric philosophy and techniques that Kerner advocates."
"Men, while still lame, can no longer hide behind the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring a woman--the facts are all here in this complete guide."
--Dr. Drew Pinsky
"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there."
"You'll find an incredible attention to detail as Kerner waxes poetic on the beauty of female anatomy and sexuality...this is a very good book, and I appreciated Kerner's willingness to share his very personal experiences with others. Would that all men were so enthusiastic about going down."
Praise for Love In The Time of Colic:
"The 'he says,
she says' handbook for rekindling your
sex life with a baby on board."
--Redbook Magazine Read More
Kerner is a sex therapist and best-selling
author, so whatever your excuse is for not
having sex, he has heard it before.He's also
married with two young sons, so there's a good
chance he has also lived your excuse. Assuming,
of course, your excuse is kids. Which it
"Instead of simplistic New Age
advice, Raykeil and Kerner offer practical tips
for parents who live in the real world of dirty
diapers, post-pregnancy pounds and little or no
--Seattle Post-Intelligencer Read More
"Kerner (She Comes
First ) and Raykeil (Confessions of a
Naughty Mommy) speak from experience when
they give new parents advice about having sex
again. Kerner writes from the male perspective
of feeling like the third wheel and the
temptation to bottle up emotions. Raykeil
discusses the excitement of being a new mother
as well as the sense of sheer exhaustion, not
to mention feeling far from sexy with added
baby weight. Compassionate, realistic help;
highly recommended for all public
--Library Journal Review
"Fun and full of tips,
the book is unstuffy (they use the f-word),
very personal and, at times, naughty."
--Miami Herald Read More
Praise for Sex Recharge:
comprehensive program to put your sexual health
and satisfaction up front and center and lead
you step-by-step to a more vital, fully
realized love life."
--Hilda Hutcherson, MD, Clinical Professor, Columbia University Medical Center and Author of Pleasure: A Woman's Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need and Deserve
"As a biological
anthropologist dedicated to understanding why
we love, it's refreshing and reassuring
to know that Ian Kerner is out there in the
world showing people how to
--Helen Fisher, PhD, author of Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love
"From breaking out of
a sex rut to managing mismatched libidos, Ian
Kerner is at the forefront of giving us fresh
sexy solutions to classic sex
--Esther Perel, marriage and family therapist and author of Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic
"With case studies and
examples of couples and singles who have gone
through the program, Kerner leads us
empathetically through a journey that will
appeal to young and old across the relationship
Praise for Passionista:
"In Passionista, his pleasure
is all yours!"
--Tracey Cox, best-selling author of SuperSex
"Ian is that best male
friend who just happens to be a hip sex
therapist. Passionista satisfies the
reader with tasty morsels of sexual
enlightenment, nibble by nibble, bite by
--Lou Paget Best-selling author How to Be a Great Lover & Great Lover Playbook
Class in Men. Four Stars. You need another sex
book like you need a hole in the head, right?
Not so fast. Kerner, who famously urged men to
wiggle their tongues in She Comes
First, is back with a guided tour of male
sexuality, with an emphasis on the mind as well
as the body."
--New York Post
"On the principle of 'what is
good for the goose is good for the gander,' Dr.
Ian Kerner has written the logical follow-up to She Comes First. He Comes Next provides detailed instruction on pleasuring a
-- Barnes & Noble.com
"..his discussions of male
desire and sexual response, and tips on how to
tickle the male libido before you even reach
the bedroom, made me feel like a female Luke
Skywalker, toiling under the tutelage of a much
more articulate Yoda."
-- Sex Herald
The Big Fun Sexy Sex Book
Praise for The Big Fun Sexy Sex Book:
"A fun and innovative guide to rejuvenating your sex life and libido."
"A new sex bible."
"Some pretty darn enlightening stuff."
"The ultimate guide to better sex."
--Travis Stork, M.D., The Doctors