Using Tantric Sex to Deal with Premature Ejaculation After Cancer Treatment

Posted by Patty Brisben

If you've had an orchiectomy (the removal of one or both testes), there's the chance that you could suffer from premature ejaculation. This can obviously put a damper on your sex life. tantric sex can help. How?

First, prepare with some tantric yoga. Exercises like yoga have been shown to help those suffering from sexual dysfunction. In fact, those who practice Tantra recommend Kundalini yoga, because it's been shown to have tantric benefits, especially if you perform the poses with a partner. This particular type of yoga can relieve your stress and relax your body. In addition, because it is a yoga of awareness, it will improve your ability to sense and understand your partner's sexual needs. Finally, Kundalini yoga helps to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, which can be helpful when you're attempting to delay your orgasm.

Then, when you're finally ready to test your new knowledge in the bedroom, settle down together and attempt to harmonize your breathing. Sit across from each other and gaze into each other's eyes, and try to match your breathing to your partner's. Do this for 5 or 10 minutes.

Next, experiment with touch, caressing each other's bodies and discussing what feels good. As you naturally transition into foreplay, maintain eye contact, and continue to harmonize your breathing. Keep it slow, and concentrate on giving your partner pleasure.

Finally, move into slow, sensual sex, using mindfulness and the exercising of your PC muscles to keep your orgasm at bay. Trying to hot foot it to the finish line could be making things worse for you, so you should slow it down in bed and try to just breathe, enjoying every moment of what you're feeling with your partner.

In fact, the more you concentrate on deep breathing, the less chance there is of your muscles tensing up, and your penis prematurely shooting its load.

If you feel yourself heading toward the brink, pause in your lovemaking, relax, tighten your PC muscles, and breathe some more. Then continue for as long as you can manage. While there's something to be said for hot, sweaty, quick and dirty sex, the slow sensuality of tantric sex has the potential to eradicate any issues you may be having with PE.