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Sex After Cancer

Advice from Patty Brisben and Keri Peterson, MD

Patty BrisbenPatty Brisben is the CEO and founder of Pure Romanceā„¢, the nation's fastest-growing in-home direct sales company specializing in relationship enhancement products, intimacy education, and sexual health awareness. With over twenty-five years of experience working with women, she now leads tens of thousands of consultants who are touching the lives of women and couples nationwide. Through Pure Romance's Sexual Health Education Department, Patty assists women in recapturing their sensual and sexual selves following cancer diagnosis and treatment. The Department also engages in collaborative research studies with Indiana University's Center for Sexual Health Promotion, which is affiliated with the prestigious Kinsey Institute. In 2006 Patty created the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women's Sexual Health, which serves to strengthen, support, and enhance health services provided for women through education, research, and community outreach. Her notable work has put her in the national spotlight, with appearances on "The View" and CNN amongst others and profiles in leading business publications, including Forbes and Entrepreneur.


Keri PetersonDr. Keri Peterson obtained her bachelor degree from Cornell University and received her medical degree from Mount Sinai School of Medicine. She completed post-graduate training in Internal Medicine at Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York City and is board certified in Internal Medicine. Dr. Peterson has been in private practice with a prominent medical group on the Upper East Side of Manhattan since 1999. She holds appointments at Lenox Hill Hospital and Mount Sinai Medical Center. She is a member of the American College of Physicians and the American Medical Association. With a demonstrated commitment to the advancement of medicine, Dr. Peterson has several publications in leading medical and scientific journals and has presented at distinguished medical symposiums. Dr. Peterson is a medical contributor and columnist for Women's Health Magazine and also appears frequently on the TODAY Show amongst others.

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How Couples Can Deal with Sex After Cancer

Posted by Patty Brisben

Struggling with a cancer diagnosis? Cancer -- and its treatment -- can be overwhelming, on both a physical and an emotional level. And while this may not be on your mind at first, it can even affect your sex life. How can you make your intimate life a priority again...

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How to Help Your Partner Deal with a Cancer Diagnosis

Posted by Keri Peterson, MD

Perhaps you're reading this because your partner has been diagnosed with cancer. For that, we salute you. It's admirable that you're taking the time to educate yourself about your partner's diagnosis, and about the physical and emotional fallout they will inevitably experience. But what's even more important is asking yourself:...

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How To Feel Sexy When You're Just Plain Fatigued

Posted by Keri Peterson, MD

One of the most common excuses people use when turning down sex from their partner? "Sorry, honey. I'm feeling too tired to exert myself with some strenuous bumping and grinding." We know. So trite. But it's tough to prioritize sex if you've had a long day at work, a tough...

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How to Boost a Low Libido

Posted by Patty Brisben

One of the biggest roadblocks to a healthy sex life after cancer is plain old lack of desire. And low libido can be affected by so many things. But you can't allow your intimate life to fall victim to the health issues you're struggling with. It's not fair to you...

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How to Feel Sexy After a Mastectomy

Posted by Keri Peterson, MD

If one or both of your breasts have been removed, you're probably feeling self-conscious about the drastic change in your body. Because, while you appreciate the fact that men now look at your face when you're conversing (up here, boys), your collection of deep V-necks now leaves you feeling flat...

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How to Manage Arousal Issues After Cancer Treatment

Posted by Patty Brisben

Following cancer treatment, you may experience numbness and a lack of sensation in areas that were previously hot spots. This can be caused by surgery, or even by the nerve damage that can occur as a result of chemotherapy treatments. And while this numbness may lessen over time, in some...

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How to Deal with Vaginal Tightness After Cancer Treatment

Posted by Keri Peterson, MD

Immediately following your cancer treatment, you may feel tighter than you ever have before. You aren't imagining things. This is a common side effect of treatment, and radiation therapy to the pelvic region in particular can cause scar tissue to form in your vagina, and can also cause your vagina...

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How to Deal with Erectile Dysfunction After Cancer Treatment

Posted by Keri Peterson, MD

Erectile dysfunction can be caused by a number of cancer treatments. Luckily, your erections may very well return after six to 12 months. But what can you do if they don't? Rebuild Your Sex Life Around Other Forms of Intimacy Being unable to have traditional intercourse is a total bummer....

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Using Tantric Sex to Deal with Premature Ejaculation After Cancer Treatment

Posted by Patty Brisben

If you've had an orchiectomy (the removal of one or both testes), there's the chance that you could suffer from premature ejaculation. This can obviously put a damper on your sex life. tantric sex can help. How? First, prepare with some tantric yoga. Exercises like yoga have been shown to...

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How To Incorporate Non-Sexual Physical Contact Into Your Routine

Posted by Patty Brisben

While maintaining that physical connection with throughout-the-day butt smacks and soft caresses can leave you more open to sex, it can also combat another issue cancer survivors struggle with: poor body image. You may feel that your body has turned traitor. And, depending upon the type of cancer treatment you...

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How To Take Care of That Sexy Body Post-Cancer

Posted by Keri Peterson, MD

How others perceive you -- and how you perceive yourself -- can have a direct effect on your sex life... especially after cancer. As you likely know, many cancer treatments can leave you feeling sexless, or just plain ugly. But the more you take care of your bod, the sexier...

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