Shortcomings

Lasting Longer During Sex

with Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner PhD, LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. He is also the New York Times best-selling author of numerous books including She Comes First, the best-selling sex advice book of the last decade. Ian has often appeared on CNN, The Today Show and The Dr. Oz Show, amongst others. In addition to being a New York State licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). Ian was born and raised in New York City, where he lives with his wife and two sons and their family dogs, Jitterbug and Oscar.

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PE and Me

Posted by Ian Kerner, Ph.D., LMFT

My first book, She Comes First, began with the line "Confessions of a Premature Ejaculator." That was the hardest line I've ever had to write--and I'm a sex therapist. It's not easy to talk about sex in any circumstance, but I think premature ejaculators have it the toughest. Take erectile...

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Introducing this Blog

Posted by Ian Kerner, Ph.D., LMFT

If you're perusing this blog, you probably already know what it can be like to occasionally ejaculate sooner than you--and your partner--would like. Sure, it's annoying. You're embarrassed, self-conscious, and worried you haven't pleased her. But is it a real problem? As frustrating as it is, coming too quickly every...

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