In today’s harried world, many couples find themselves juggling a laundry list of responsibilities (no pun intended). From kids to careers to simply getting enough sleep, it’s all too easy for many couples allow their relationship to fall to the bottom of that to-do list, since there are so many other pressing concerns.

For many guys porn is basically a thirty-second spa-day, complete with happy ending: it feels good, relieves stress, and functions as a quick little treat -- kind of like scarfing down a bag of gummy bears in the middle of the day. It doesn't mean we're not interested in having "a real meal" with the woman we love, but sometimes we're in the mood for a snack.

Forget romantic dinners and a room for two at your favorite weekend spot. It turns out that the key to great sex for women is a clean kitchen—and maybe some help making sure the kids’ homework is done. Sexy, huh?