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Premature Ejaculation/ED

By july25 on Jul 25, 2010 at 8:54 PM

Ever since I became conscious as an adult, I have been dealing with ED and premature ejaculation. What I most worried about is the premature ejaculation-as I can hardly stay a few seconds. My wife complains once a while. It is painful that neither me or my wife enjoys the sex when we manage to have one. I always have the fear of "coming too soon" when i plan on initiating sex.Please any suggestion on how to put a stop to this

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Anna Potter | Jul 26, 2010 at 11:01 AM | Reply | Report

Know that you're not alone in this, and there are ways to overcome it. We have three great resources here:
E-book: Overcoming Premature Ejaculation
Mini-guide: All About Premature Ejaculation
Mini-guide: Erectile Problems and Erectile Dysfunction

Ed Ratush | Jul 26, 2010 at 6:56 PM | Reply | Report

There are several aspects to the problem you described worth addressing. And you should definitely aquatint yourself with some basic knowledge about the treatments. What I would like to emphasize is that you also need to address the secondary problems that develop with "early ejaculation". (I prefer that to premature ejaculation)

1. You do not enjoy sex
2. your wife does not enjoy sex
3. Always have a fear mentality

A big part of treatment involves your willingness to tolerate the emotions that currently are uncomfortable if not paralyzing. Successful intervention is dependent on your willingness to work together with your wife towards a new way to look at sex and how you behave towards one another when you want to express your desire.

Spanky | Sep 24, 2015 at 5:06 PM | Reply | Report

Lol I may be in a forum I don't belong in...
Others answers seem more clinical, my answers will be based more on what I know and have learned through the last 50 years of sex.

The first and maybe easiest solution is masturbate and get the fast and easy one out of the way. Wait a while then have sex,if you're still quick, wait a little while and try it again. You'll eventually slow down and if you don't, after 4 or 5 rounds, consider yourself a stud !!!
Be inventive find a fun way to get those first one or two easy ones out of the way.

healthyfud | May 1, 2017 at 7:24 AM | Reply | Report

For such a long period of time, you will be looking at a permanent fix to the problem not a quick fix. Spanky's idea may work for a quick fix but not for permanent and also how long will you keep that up?

Ed's ideas is also on point as the strategy is focused on more permanent cure.

Most of these problems stems from the state of mind and what food one eats. Finding the perfect combination is the key and in addition to a well known and clinically tested supplements, you could be saying good buy to Your impending problem sooner than you think.

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