The Doctor is In!

No Orgasm

By Curious2010 on Sep 28, 2010 at 8:22 PM

I have never had an orgasm with my husband.....to his credit....he has recently started reading up on how to give me one (at least per the websites left on the computer:-)



The topic is touchy b/c when I attempt to talk about it....he INFORMS me that he has "given other women orgasms" (before we were married)....so it must be me, right????? My response is that they "could have faked it"......



We have been married for 10 years and I am attracted to him....I want sex....until it starts.

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Anna Potter | Oct 6, 2010 at 12:06 AM | Reply | Report

Check it out: your husband can't "give" anyone an orgasm--not you, not his former partners, nobody. I want to agree with you that they could have faked it, and also to note that we are all responsible for our own orgasms.

I also think it's really important for you and your husband to remember that not every woman is going to have an orgasm when she has sex. Have you tried masturbating together? Have you ever had an orgasm by yourself?

Check out our mini-guide on female orgasm, and our e-Book on Female Orgasms!

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