I'm a young female in my early-mid 20's, married to a great guy, physically in great shape, but I'm pretty sure I'm one of those women who thinks she's never had an orgasm. I think I may have had one years ago when I was being fingered by a past ex, but I'm not sure. I felt like I had to pee before we started fooling around (instead of feeling it during the escapade) and then released A LOT of fluid. I know some women feel like they're peeing when they have orgasms but is that what happened with me when I felt like I had to urinate BEFORE we got intimate? Regardless, I've never experienced anything resembling an orgasm with anyone else- not even my husband!- and I'm worried something is wrong with me. Any clues as to how I can achieve this goal? My husband and I try any and every position but no results thus far.