Shy About Masturbation and Toys
I have what I would consider a fairly good sexual relationship with my wife of many years although the frequency of sexual relations with her could be more frequent. When she is able to forget the stresses of life, she is able to enjoy intercourse and have orgasms. However, there are many times she says she doesn't think she can get there and she will just take care of me (which I appreciate). I would like to be able to help her get there and have suggested masturbating her with my hand or using a vibrator. She is reluctant to let me use a vibrator or anything else to relieve tension and reach orgasm. How can I get her to be more receptive to this idea?