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By Egapudas on Jan 20, 2011 at 2:14 PM

I am 23 years old i am in good shape and don't smoke and I am a chronic porn user. I have tried to stop but can't seem to. I have just gotten a girl friend and we've been together for about 6 months. we have been sexually active with her for about three months. All i want is for her to be happy. when we have sex i can usually go 5-7 "rounds" being times i've climaxed, sometimes i can go back right after i've climaxed. although i can have premature ejaculations for the first one or two the rest are very good. My girfriend is very satisfied with our love life together. I am wondering if i should begin to try to get away from porn i thought that have a love life would get me away but i found that is not the case. and is this going to be a problem for me later on if i continue with the same style -thanks

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58doinggreat | Jan 20, 2011 at 9:33 PM | Reply | Report

At least you recognize you have a problem! Now, do you want to live like a lab rat, eating a junk diet of porn? Or are you man enough to turn it off and walk out of the cage? Your choice ...

RA,MSW,RSW | Jan 20, 2011 at 10:14 PM | Reply | Report

Egapudas, I'm not sure what you feel the problem is. Looking at sexual images is not in itself a dysfunction. You are sexually active with your gf, so the 'porn" is not interfering with your sex life.
You have 5-7 climaxes with her, so no physical problem. You say you "have premature ejaculations for the first one or two" while the rest are good. That tells me that you may have some performance anxiety. "Premature" ejaculation is usually considered to be ejaculation before penetration. Rapid ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs so soon that your partner can't enjoy intercourse. But you say you "can go back right after i've climaxed," so how is this a problem?
Maybe you are over-thinking, leading to anxiety. Consider worrying less and enjoying more.
- R.A., MSW, RSW, Registered Sex Therapist, Ontario, Canada

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