The Doctor is In!

no sex at all

By martinica on Nov 14, 2011 at 2:42 PM

I am dating a 62 year man for two year now..I am 46 and we have no sex at all....I am sure he is not gay...though we have a great relationship.....I don't know how else to approach him? I do need sex....

Thank you


3 replies

1kuelguy | Nov 16, 2011 at 3:41 PM | Reply | Report

Hi Martinica,
I sympathize with your situation, but why did either of you not have some conversations about sex? Has there been dialog? How far do you go? Sorry to be so blunt but I have a hard time imagining, kissing for two years (for example) and not taking it to the next level? Please help us to help you by providing some more information.

Hope this helps.

sexyagain | Nov 16, 2011 at 11:37 PM | Reply | Report

Ask him flat out. Two years in any relationship you should be able to be open and honest. Communication is so important! It's the key to any good relationship, either romantic or not. I think you need to just be honest. It may not be easy to say, but it's the only way to get an answer. Your 46 and you only live once, dont waste a second wondering when you can just ask!

Madeleine Castellanos, M.D. | Nov 17, 2011 at 6:53 AM | Reply | Report

What was your sex life in the beginning of the relationship? What have you spoken about with him in regards to your sex life together? It is not always easy to bring up this conversation, but it makes all the difference in the world to communicate with your partner. You want to be able to let them know that sex is a priority for you, but do so without being accusatory or judgmental. Do you masturbate on your own? These questions could help us give you more specific direction.

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