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Advice on bringing another man into our bedroom

By Marriedcurious on Sep 22, 2013 at 3:54 PM

Any advice for finding a man for my wife and I to share. I know it won't be hard to find someone who will sleep with her, even while I am there. But I want to play with him as we'll. I am bi-sexual and have had see with men in the past, but these days the urge is great. Instead of cheating, I thought it might be exciting to have us both enjoy a man together. Do these sorts of men exist? Where do you meet them? Any relevant stories?

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Ian Kerner, Ph.D., LMFT | Oct 4, 2013 at 8:38 PM | Reply | Report

What does your wife think about this scenario?

Stoliguy | Nov 7, 2013 at 10:04 AM | Reply | Report

+1 Ian

First and foremost, if she's on board, it will be FAR easier.
These men DO exist... you're one of them!
Before you worry about where to meet them, define this CLEARLY with your wife... IF she's open to the idea, she needs to know that you're not trying to replace her and that you're still attracted to her! Make it about you as a couple, not just you.

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