Casual sex in universityHi forum,
I'm a virgin male.
I have decided to engage in casual sex with my female friends in university ?
I've had chat with the counsellor and she suggested I used humour to ask for sex with female friend. Method to build up rapport before sex would be helpful as well as establishing boundaries.
I want to create a fun , non pressured , non judgmental environment. I'm ready to listen and respect what she wants ( casual or commited )
Right now I want to initiate a friends with benefits relationship with my potential partner.
What playful questions or gestures could I use to initiate sex without making it look too direct, creepy , or forceful ?
It's important I handle sex before, during and , after well too. I want to leave her feeling cared for instead of used.