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Female orgasm an refusal of cunnilingus

By tomx on Apr 15, 2017 at 8:14 PM

Hello there,

I have recently started a relationship with a younger (42) woman.

We were anxious to get to bed and the fiat time was less than optimal. She seems to rush up things by wanting penetration very soon and jumping foreplay nearly altogether.

She doesn't enjoy receiving oral sex, but only gives it and says that it takes her a very long time to reach an orgasm, hours sometimes.

I was puzzled as to what to do to please her in bed as I suspect that without oral stimulation, it could be nearly impossible to give her climax.

Advice on what to do next time will be very welcomed. Should I insist on cunnilingus at the risk of displease her? Other ways to arouse her enough to be ready for penetration in sync with my speed?

Thanks!!!

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Kate McCombs, MPH | Apr 17, 2017 at 2:34 PM | Reply | Report

You should never insist on doing anything to her sexually. If she doesn't like cunnilingus, respect her preferences. Instead, ask her what she DOES want and do those things.

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